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How To Hear God’s Voice For Your Purpose In Life

| February 18, 2019
How To Hear God's Voice For Your Purpose In Life

Have you ever wondered what God wants you to do with your life? I certainly did.

For so long, I lived a good life. I had a beautiful home, a thriving business, a great daughter; life couldn’t have been better.

…Or so I kept telling myself.

To Be Completely Candid…

I was thankful for all that God had done for me, but I felt so ungrateful. I believed His promise of a bright future, but I struggled to see the possibilities.

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