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Sheila Qualls

An Unexpected Divorce Court Detour Saved Our Failed Marriage

June 22, 2020 |
We were on the road to divorce court when God stepped in...

One bad year turned into two and before I knew it, we were creeping up on five years of misery. Sure we’d had some good times, but secretly our marriage felt like an episode of Marriage Bootcamp. Hard and full of drama.

Marriage was a bigger challenge than I’d ever imagined. I’d gone into it with pretty simple expectations: He’d make me happy all the time. When he didn’t, I got angry and bitter. I was sad. I got mean.

He wasn’t meeting my need for emotional intimacy. I didn’t meet his need for physical intimacy. Talk about a hot mess.

I’d go days without speaking to him, and even considered having an affair. I acted like a spoiled child, and fantasized about divorce. It was bad. I didn’t know much about God, but if He was good as everyone said He was, I couldn’t believe He’d want me to be in an unhappy marriage.

“God is love, right?” I rationalized. He’d want me to be happy.

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Marriage problems & ...toothpaste?

How To Unintentionally Sabotage Your Marriage

When Sheila first got married, her union was destined for disaster. The problem? Toothpaste. Read about this and other marriage problems that were unintentionally sabotaging Sheila's marriage in this post.…

June 16, 2020