Reaching for Your Dreams When Life Keeps You Busy

April 24, 2017 |
reaching for your dreams when life keeps you busy.

Have you ever wanted to try some new things, or pursue a lifelong goal, but felt overburdened with other priorities?

I know I’ve felt like this time and again.

I read a post the other day about how people spend their time and how fast time goes by. And it seems the older we get the faster it goes.

Time is money, as the saying goes, but time is also precious. It seems that we sometimes proclaim that we wish there were more hours in a day. Time management and straightening out my priorities isn’t easy unless you begin to condition yourself to put forth the effort toward that goal.

Have You Struggled With Time Management?

If you have a family, it can be hard to find time for yourself. You have to grab some free time whenever you can, and then when you do, it doesn’t last long. And so the cycle goes, from morning until night.

While my children were growing up, everyday brought challenges; running errands, taking them back and forth to sports practices and events, school functions, etc., but I never regretted my busy days.

I tried to write during those years, and while I did write some short stories, I never really had a chance to delve into a career at that time. And though there were times things were hectic, I was blessed to have the opportunity to watch my children grow—exactly what God wanted me to do.

3 Ways to Reach for Your Dreams

Maybe the time isn’t right for you to pursue a new career, and if so, know that you are right where God wants you, but that doesn’t mean you can’t plan on what it is that you think you’d like to do when the time presents itself. We still need to keep our priorities in order.

Collect Memories

Maybe you’re busy devoting your time and energy to your family. This really is awesome! There’s nothing wrong with this. So, along your journey, and in the meantime, maybe you can think about some things during this time how you can use your talent(s) after your children are grown, and you have more time. Keep a journal and prepare for the time you can use your abilities to God’s glory. For example, I have on my agenda to take all of my pictures that I’ve taken and will continue to take, of my grandchildren from birth to eighteen, put them to a music video, and give it to them as a graduation present (shhh, please don’t tell them, it’s a surprise). Why not do the same thing your children or grandchildren? After you become a pro, maybe you’d like to do it for other parents. This is in my not-so-distant-future.

Take Notes

There are so many elderly people who’d love someone to take an interest in them and help them with little things. Offering to pick something up at the store for them? Mowing their yard? And if they’re able to get out, they’d love to go to breakfast a few times a month or to the mall to have the opportunity to get out among others. Keep a journal and ask them about their life. Let them tell you their stories. The elderly love to reminisce and tell people about their past. Some may have some very interesting stories to tell, and you just might hit on some that could help others. Take notes and ask their permission if you could tell their story in a self-published anthology or on your blog as a post. This is also on my agenda.

You can also do this with children as long as you have permission from their parents. There’s a treasure trove of funny and heartwarming things that kids say about life, love, families. Ask them. They’ll be honest with you.  Write down or record their answers. When your children are grown, and you have more time, maybe you can pursue writing a book or blog about the treasure trove of thoughts that you’ve gathered. This, too, is on my agenda.

Gather Supplies

If you’re interested in sewing or art projects, start collecting supplies while you wait. It can save you a ton of money in the long run to gather supplies as you go. If you’re at a store and see something on sale, or you stop at a garage sale and see fabric, go ahead and pick it up. Maybe you want to create art with trash or nature’s resources, start collecting things you see that spark your creativity.

In The Meantime…

Check out this Pinterest board of hobbies for women. Or, if you’re over 60, check out this list of hobbies.

Years ago, I learned through a difficult situation how perfect God’s timing is. He knows what’s best for us, He understands our hectic schedules, and He loves and cares about what happens in our lives. He knows life happens.

“All things work together for the good to them that love God, to them who are called according to His purpose.” Romans 8:28 NASB

“At the same time they also learn to be idle, as they go around from house to house; and not merely idle, but also gossips and busybodies, talking about things not proper to mention.” 1 Timothy 5:13 NASB

God offers grace and it’s sufficient for us. He’ll lead us down the path He chooses for us if we ask Him. His timing is perfect.

In the end, He just wants us to glorify Him. He wants us to enjoy life. And He wants us to exercise the talents He’s given us. If we can just discover what it is we really enjoy doing.

“For I know the plans that I have for you,’ declares the Lord, ‘plans for welfare and not for calamity to give you a future and a hope.” Jeremiah 29:11 NASB


“Finally, brethren, whatever is true, whatever is honorable, whatever is right, whatever is of good repute, if there is any excellence and if anything worthy of praise, dwell on these things.” Philipians 4:8 NASB

Share Your Experiences

Is your life hectic? Have you struggled with time management, or reaching for your dreams? If so, what steps have you taken to help you toward that goal? What obstacles have you overcame?

We’d love to have you share your experiences in the comments below.

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  • Reply Terri April 24, 2017 at 12:50 pm

    I love the verse: For I know the plans I have for you declares the Lord, it is my absolute favourite verse
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    • Reply Debbie April 24, 2017 at 7:42 pm

      I know, mine too, Terri. I’ve said this verse a lot through the years.
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  • Reply Alice Mills April 24, 2017 at 2:11 pm

    I love the idea of collecting memories. When I was younger, I did not see the importance, but now that my children are grown, I really do.

    • Reply Debbie April 24, 2017 at 7:43 pm

      I know, it’s so important, Alice. It gives them something to remember.
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  • Reply Andrea April 24, 2017 at 4:39 pm

    and take it all to God first in prayer – He may have something that one doesn’t know about!

  • Reply Amy Christensen April 24, 2017 at 7:55 pm

    Great ideas for any place we are at in life. Thank you for sharing.

  • Reply Jennifer DeFrates/Heaven Not Harvard April 24, 2017 at 8:59 pm

    I am definitely still a work in progress regarding time management. I am always trying to multi-task, but end up feeling like nothing gets done to completion that way. I am trying to learn better how to finish one thing at a time and shut off social media while I work!
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    • Reply Debbie Erickson April 25, 2017 at 1:54 pm

      I think this is hard for most people. I have tbe same problem sometimes and have to remind myself to stay focused. It does take self discipline. I think the more we get in the habit, the easier it becomes. But…one step at a time. 😊Thanks for stopping by and leaving a comment, Jennifer.
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  • Reply Kristi April 25, 2017 at 12:35 pm

    I’ve learned that some of my dreams are for later and not now. God is using other experiences to hone my skills and maybe make these dreams more of reality later in my life.
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    • Reply Debbie Erickson April 25, 2017 at 1:58 pm

      So true, Kristi. Nice that you’ve realized this. Ive learned that I don’t have to hurry my way through life and that there’re valuable things to learn along the way. Thanks for stopping by and commenting!
      Debbie Erickson recently posted…Three Tips On Pursuing Your Goals

  • Reply Tara April 25, 2017 at 10:28 pm

    I love all your suggestions–especially collecting memories. God has been good. I can’t move quite as fast as I want on my dreams, but what God has for me to do right now is really important too!
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    • Reply Debbie Erickson April 27, 2017 at 6:55 am

      Thanks, Tara, one step (day) at a time. He’ll lead us and put us right where He wants us. 🙂 This is one of the many reasons why He’s so awesome. Thanks so much for stopping by and commenting. ~~Blessings

  • Reply Aleida April 26, 2017 at 5:49 am

    This is truly my life right now! I’m relatively a new wide and mom so it can be hard to work on my vision and have time for myself. Thank you for this.

    • Reply Debbie Erickson April 27, 2017 at 6:58 am

      You’re welcome, Aleida. I know I used to get so anxious about what I thought God wanted me to do…I feared I was running out of time! Then I realized that I needed to slow down, take one day at a time and that He’d work things out in my life if I trusted Him to do it. Sometimes visions, dreams, and goals don’t happen overnight. Thanks for stopping by and leaving a comment! ~~Blessings
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  • Reply Elizabeth Stewart April 30, 2017 at 9:18 am

    Your post gave me some food for thought!

    • Reply Debbie Erickson June 25, 2017 at 8:14 am

      Hi Elizabeth, I thought I’d revisit this post to see if anyone else had commented. I’m glad I did. Thanks for letting me know, and thanks for visiting our site. ~blessings!
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  • Reply Gretchen May 2, 2017 at 10:41 am

    What encouragement for when someone wants to pursue an avenue but the timing isn’t right! Great practical steps for NOW. Thanks for sharing:)

    • Reply Debbie Erickson June 25, 2017 at 8:16 am

      Hi Gretchen, thank you. I’m glad I checked back to see if anyone else had commented, and I’m glad I did. Thanks for commenting and visiting our site. ~blessings!
      Debbie Erickson recently posted…Are You A Quitter?

  • Reply Aika April 27, 2019 at 2:03 am

    Love these tips! So glad I found this just at the right time. I’ve just given birth to our firstborn last month and it’s really daunting and challenging for me to manage my time working from home while taking care of our baby alone. My husband is in their province since last month and won’t be back until the first week of May. I have to endure a little more and hopefully, I can already have some time to take care of myself too and have some decent sleep.

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